12 August, 2006

Love And Fuck: Many Questions and No Answer

_ Do you feel incomplete?

_ Do you feel like you want something but just don't know what is it?

_ Do everything around you seems to be moving along just fine except one aspect of your irreversibly expiring life which tips the balance of fulfillment?

_ A friend of mine recently announced to me that he, at this juncture of his young adult life, feels that all he requires is a girlfriend. He sure knows what he needs to be complete. But does he knows why?

_ Love and Fuck. Can someone tell me the difference? Isn't what makes you head over heels the same thing as what makes you horny? Isn't the need to breed a fucking process of nature. A primal instinct?

_ A day before that, another friend insisted that he had enough of relationships. Just right after he advised me to get one. If relationship equates to Love and Love is a wonderful thing, how can anyone get enough of it?

_ I am always overjoyed when my close friends get attached. Especially, when they were like me, single all their life. You can really feel the transformation. It's little things they do that is different but the effect on the scale is big. It is when your iPod shuffled Radiohead's Knives' Out to Norah Jones' Sunrise.

_ Getting attached after a long and tedious process of courting. That is something. Right? But how long does it last? If it doesn't, that's when you ask why were they together in the first place? Convenience?

_ Speaking of convenience. There are people who barters for Fuck when they clearly doesn't need to. Prostitution is someone inventing a teleporter: You get to point B(Fuck) from point A(First Sight) without needing to draw the line(Love, Trust). Can Fuck be so addictive that it could proceed without Love?

_ And what about people who have affairs? Some people believes it's okay to have affairs as long as they don't bring them home - hence the saying: Don't bring the cow home after you milk it. What's unbelieveable is that some of these people are women. So where is the Love here for the wives, husbands and their lovers?

_ This may look like a negative view on the subject of Love. It is not. The author of this article actually believes in Love. All this entry wants to discover is: What is True Love? How does one know? You can't say: You know when you know. Many cases have already proven it wrong. Is there an answer at all? For my sake, I want to believe there is.

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Inspired by conversations over the past few weeks.

1 Comments:

Blogger crow resurrect said...

You don't look for love, it hits you. You keep looking for a fuck and you are least prepared for it. Everything has a price. The good things in life are free. We live in a world full of curtains, all you'd have to do is pay to see. Your soul keeps searching, you are not sure for what at the end of the day. You stop to fantasize about pleasures and end up hurting yourself. Your expectancy is too high maybe one day your son might forgive. - James Kumar

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